"You can't start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one." Stop thinking about the "what if". Reflect on "what is" and create the "what's next". Be in charge of your life. Start your next chapter. Be the author of your own story.
La vérité, Boris Cyrulnik [The truth To find happiness, you have to risk misfortune. If you want to be happy, we must not seek to flee misfortune at all costs. We should rather investigate how - and thanks to that - we can overcome it.