For one of your table options grouping floating candle vases together is a pretty option for a non-floral centerpieces. To add the "wow", tint the water in some of the vases a dark purple and some a light purple and float gold candles.
"Without the veil, you're just another girl in a white dress. With the veil, you're a bride!" -Randy Fenoli Oh. My. I freakin LOVE LOVE LOVE this hairdo and the veil to tie it all together! And the bow on the veil? So cute!