If you aren't going to consistently make an effort with me, don't expect me to make an effort to care. Unfortunately, it's a two way street, I wish my "friends" understood this. It's hard to reach out when you have anxiety.
You Know What Turns Me On? just some fucking effort. a small sign something just show fucking something.its like sitting at a redlight and it never turns green.you finally have to look both ways say fuck it and drive.
If you're important to them, people will make time for you. No one is that busy. Maybe not at the moment you want it, but they will make the effort. If they don't make that effort anymore, you know where you stand.