I use to feel bad but not anymore. Took a long time to realize some people don't deserve my time or emotions. For my inlaws. Shame on your narcissism. Learn to behave like an adult. Terribly sad how you all treat him.
You are allowed to terminate toxic relationships. You are allowed to walk away from people who hurt you. You are allowed to be angry and selfish and unforgiving. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for taking care of yourself.
There are a few out there who just love and live for the drama. They just cant get out of their own way. Much like a car crash, can't help but watch. Ahhh but the peace when you just turn it off. and walk away from all their misery.