Napkin as bow tie. How cute would this be for a wedding - especially if you did place card seating! turn it the other way, and tuck in a flower or tie it with bow.if you tie it higher, it might look like a dress!
Tea lights set in mason jars: I like this idea combined with frosted mason jars which is just a simple spray can. Place multiple jars at each table. We can get mason jars of all differing sizes at Goodwills in the area.