You can choose to live your life with the joy of the front row or solemness of the third row. The choice is yours. That's me in the front row with my joy. Those are my coworkers in the third row. Every day is a struggle to keep them from killing my joy.
On a deux vies, et la seconde commence quand on se rend compte qu'on n'en a qu'une. -- Confucius --- We have two lives, and the second begins when we realize that there is only one.