One thing at a time. Know the problem. Learn to listen. Learn to ask. Distinguish sense from nonsense. Accept change as inevitable. Say it simple. Be calme. How to work better, ten simple things that make a huge difference.
Amazing people don't just happen. They have to work hard. If none of us worked hard or worked in general we wouldn't have freedom or iPhones or iPads. Work hard and you can become one of those AMAZING people.